Slowly learning how to study. Color coded my planner and plugged in all the assignment due dates for my classes. Figured out what I need to catch up on and am planning on reading the shit out of my German book wish me luck.
I’m really just so fucking angry.
enjoy not having a boss while it lasts, a+ responsible hedonism there
Thank you! I thought so.
All I want in this world is an oversized t-shirt with the word “TRASH” on it and a pair of leggings without holes in them.
this reminds me of my favourite armless t-shirt, made in china for cheap and pretending to be a very old, very american t-shirt with holes and parts cut off, picture of an eagle included only 2x longer and 0.7x narrower. a wonder of design
that sounds like a fucking bomb ass t-shirt my friend
Most of the time, yeah its mega gross. But sometimes, I think the younger/smaller/subby person is referring to their partner as /A/ daddy, but not /THEIR/ daddy. Maybe? That makes me feel a little better about it, at least.
I know for a fact that in some Hispanic and Latin cultures, Mama (not Mamá), Mami, Mamasita, etc. is often used as a term of endearment for a girl child. Papi too, for boys, but less often. Some people do sexualize that IN CONTEXT by calling their…
…girlfriend Mami or whatever, but that can happen with literally any word. The same way white people say Sweetie, or whatever. It all depends on context. The term Baby can refer to a baby, a significant other, a pet, a car. It’s all context-based.
I mean, I respect/support your feelings of disgust and embarrassment, but also… I think you should account for context and colloquialisms. Words don’t always have to mean the same thing, I think.
You actually have a very good point about language which I hadn’t considered. And, though It still kind of squicks me out, I can agree that judgment should be context based.
I dont think I have a full understanding of it but according to what I know it’s about age/maturity and not actually their fathers?
I mean, that’s definitely better, but I still don’t like it.
:/ I don’t like it either
We can be uncomfortable together
And to be fair, I don’t really like the term “Baby” for romantic or sexual interactions either. It’s gross and reductive to me.
"Babe" I’m okay with because it’s fairly outdated as a term for an infant these days.
I absolutely respect everyone’s right to call their romantic or sexual partner by whatever they would like.
But for the love of god, I do not fucking understand the “Daddy” thing.
Like, you realize that you’re implying you would like to fuck your father. This is what “Daddy” means. And, going off of the common trend of calling a dom or top “Daddy,” I think it’s gross and weird that people can so easily associate sexual dominance with their Dad. Like. Ew. Like super fucking ew. This is some Freudian bullshit and I don’t understand it.
I don’t understand it with “Mommy” and “Momma” either, but I think that’s less common.
Like it’s so fucking gross to me. If someone called me Momma or Mommy in bed I would fucking shove them onto the floor. Because ew ew ew no why are you bringing up parents right now? IT’S WEIRD.
I get that humans and especially human psychology is weird as fuck, but I just. How is this such a common trend? Why is “Daddy” so fucking common???? It also literally infantilizes the other partner in the situation. And sometimes there is a weird child/parent dynamic that people play with when one calls the other Daddy? And when one partner calls the other one Daddy and the other one calls the other partner Baby? It gives this whole new gross connotation to the term Baby. And I just. That’s where I draw the line. Because any sexual kinks which sexualize children or childlike behavior, to me, contribute to societal beliefs that sexualizing children is okay. And it’s not. Girls especially are sexualized very young and it’s often heternormative for girls and for boys.
So I guess sexualize your parents if you want. That’s fucked up and I don’t understand you, but you do you.
Don’t go near sexualizing childhood though. I’ll kick your goddamn fatherfucking ass.